Thursday, June 29, 2006

Online Dating coaches

I can't believe it. People (at least in America) hire coaches to help them with online dating. More to the point, there are already people making money off this stuff on a second level. First the dating sites themselves, now the advisors.

Wednesday, June 28, 2006

Online Dating Stats

match.com has over 3,000,000 active users
75% of datingdirect.com members are looking for a life changing relationship
Plenty.com is free, and yet the owner claims to make $3,000,000,0000.00 a year in adSense. (a bit better than .Dating in that)
Between 30-50 million people are doing online dating globally.

RSS Feed for Dating Sites

Online Dating - Singles, Personals and Dating Sites Directory

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High Failure Rate

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"Some reports estimate that 50% of online singles are unsatisfied with their online dating results. Others indicate as many as 97% of paying members cancel their online dating accounts within 3 months due mostly to a lack of response from other members. "

Though this is an interesting article .Dating asks what benchmarks are to be used to judge online dating. Are people active in Internet dating more likely to date and find a partner than people who do not, the same or less?

It is our judgement that for many people, particually professional or people in minorities, who may be living far from their home towns and families, and who may not work in a fixed location with a set of known people, Internet dating is the ONLY option.

Any effort to improve it is good, but Internet dating is here to stay, and if it is failing than dating will more and more be failing.

Internet Dating Expert Reveals Sizzling Summer Photo Tips

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(PRWEB) June 28, 2006 -- Internet daters are receiving ten times more responses online with a great photo. Just in time for the summer photo season, Liz Kelly, Dating Coach, Author and Photographer, reveals Sizzling Summer Photo Tips in the new release of her dating book, Smart Man Hunting: The Fast-Track Dating Guide for Finding Mr. Right.

With 50 million singles scanning through internet dating profiles, Liz advises singles how to put their best face online. She explains, "One of my dating coaching clients reported being asked out by 7 new guys, who also interested her, the week after posting new photos online."

Sunday, June 25, 2006

The Big Business of Internet Dating


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Click on this site and looking at how big the business of online dating has become. Now its guys in ties.

Online Data Quiz

Take the Online Dating Quiz

Silly Question

Q ONE of my work colleagues is constantly surfing internet dating sites when he should be helping me with a joint project. What should I do? - Alex, Dundee.

Read the answer

Team Online Dating


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By the time the 33-year-old Los Angeles resident actually met the women, though, the pressure to enjoy himself was too intense. And there were dates who looked nothing like their photos.

"I don't have enough time as it is," said Roberson, a medical sales account executive. "I'd get moody after spending all of that time e-mailing someone, and then not have fun on the date."

Then he heard of TeamDating.com, a new site that puts groups of friends together. "This sounded fun," he said.

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Even People Not Interested in Sex

With all the news about sites being used for sexual adventures and many sites opening up to married swingers this story shows the true scope of Online dating.

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This article brings up an interesting point, that Online dating sites are becoming more and more specialised, and therefore breaking people in to smaller and smaller groups.

Perhaps it is that people see how effective Online dating is, and how many people are making money at it, and want in the action.

Even Conservatives Notice

Even the very conservative US Fox News is running a story on Online Dating.

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We at .Dating have noticed a major change over the last 2 months of the number of scope of stories we track on Online dating. 4 months ago most stories were repeated over and over again in smaller local media, but now major news outlets from all over the world are not afraid to talk about Online dating. In 8 months it has gone from a fringe thing people were ashamed to admit to towards a everyday part of international life.

In a years time people will probably not be able to remember how we all used to find dates.

New Republic Joins Other Old Media with Online Dating Story



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When even the New Republic runs stories about Online Dating you know it has arrived.

Monday, June 19, 2006

We have a duty to be respectful and truthful

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"Why did you let the relationship go? I'll bet it was because you felt that the person did not respect you. You may have enjoyed the same hobbies, had fun together or even shared a long history, but if you believed the other person did not respect you, there was no basis for a worthwhile relationship. The ethical principle of respect for others is a fundamental component to all relationships, personal as well as professional, and one of the most important ways we honor this principle is by telling the truth."

Ethic extending to Internet Dating

Sunday, June 18, 2006

More Internet Dating Tips

Everyone has a set of tips

Microsoft in with Match.com

For anyone who questioned that Internet dating is for real here is a story about Microsoft's partnership with Match.com.

Flickr.com

We here at .Dating have taken a little time to learn a new online community service, flickr.com from yahoo is an excellent community site around photos. And a great place to meet people.

Everybody is blond and skinny in cyberspace. And that can be a problem. Just consider the number of marriages ending because one of the parties just met their one true love through Yahoo Personals. As one divorce lawyer recently told Lawyers USA: "A client will come in -- man or woman -- and say there's someone across the country I want to marry. When I ask them, 'Have you met at all?' the answer is, 'No, I just know this is my soul mate.' "

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Online Personals Watch Interview - Nate Elliott, Jupiter Research

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The ones that are successful today in terms of revenue and users, and I respect that they’ll continue to be very successful, are Match.com and Meetic.

Online Dating Safety Tips: 8 Essential Steps to Successful Internet Dating.

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It is the old truth that the picture is worth a thousand words. Ask the people you are writing to for their photos and send them yours.

When you feel comfortable with your communication, you can give them your personal email address. Register a separate email account for this purpose, and only use it for your personal correspondence.

Only meet in a public place for the first date, and preferably, set up a time limit for the date. For example, you can say you only have half an hour before a business appointment; this will help if the date does not go as you hoped for. A 'coffee date' is a safe bet.

Thursday, June 8, 2006

Bad Press

We have noted a number of negative stories about online dating in the press. Really they have always been there. First it was not going to work, now that its working we get horror stories from the dating scene.

A recent search of Google on Online Dating found these stories


Online Dating Regulation Update

Online hookup sites see thefts, assaults

There is certainly a need to use these sites in a responsible way, ie, to arrange meeting with individuals in public places. Sex related crimes are far from anything new.

But we are sad that the press seems to want to make this a negative story, no matter how it turns out. There are risks involved with any new technology and change in society and it is our opinion that Online Dating is working and improving people's lives, in some cases very significantly.

Just remember to be safe.

PlentyOfFish makes plenty of Cash


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"I sometimes wonder if i'm crazy for not going paid, and passing up 100's of millions a year in revenue. But i created this site to change the world, and make money at the same time. I may not make $20 million a month like the other sites my size but google pays me good money My effective CPM (under $1.00) may be very very low, but when you have a site this huge it really ads up. (My girlfriend is holding up the cheque, its for 2 months as googles EFT bounced.)"

Wednesday, June 7, 2006

Online Dating Attracts A New Crowd

Been a while since we've updated. Both the dotdating staff and I have been a bit distracted by job stuff of late.

Here is an article about fraudsters who are starting to pop up on internet dating sites in the United States (it also appeared here).

Naturally our first instinct here is to warn all you internet daters out there to stay vigilant. We believe that online dating is quite safe and secure, but like everywhere else in the world, there are a few rotten apples who see it as a source of easy scams.

In a sense this is testimony to the success of online dating. Scammers only go where they think they can make money. Obviously they have seen how many people are using these sites too.